break the cycle

 if you have been here before you know I come from a rough background between my father and other family member. dealing with family with addition and control issues to say. the least i grew up in a very toxic environment. So i'm trying my best to make sure my son doesn't fall in to the same cycle as i did he already better off in a way then i was coming from a broken home. i'm trying not to take my anger out on him when it not his fault that i'm upset. I also trying my best to have him not around as much as possible when me and my husband is bickering because he dosen't need to be around that at all.  I also don't allow people to smoke in my house and not close to my son and drinking is fine until you get blackout drunk then i don't want it around my son a drink or two okay a 12 pack or 20 shots not so much. with that said i try to be be uplifting with him i praise him for the things he does